Embarrassing

By Marge

1 min read

Does anyone have any solutions?

Dry eye symptoms

My dry eyes really bother me when I’m out and about they want to close.

HELP people are always asking what’s wrong.

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RHall Community Admin
Hi <inline-mention username="Marge" user-id="4218828"/> - thanks for sharing your question. I am sorry that your eyes are feeling like they want to close. Have you seen a doctor? I ask because it will be hard for any of us to share what the diagnosis is, but your doctor definitely will be able to. That kind of symptoms is something you should seek medical assistance immediately. I know it's painful. Also I know you mention the embarrassment as others are commenting on your situation. I know it doesn't change that, but please know you are not alone. In fact this recent community spotlight (<a href='https://chronicdryeye.net/living/community-spotlight-jonny' target='_blank'>https://chronicdryeye.net/living/community-spotlight-jonny</a>) highlights the story of Jonny who has dry eye and he remarks how "the redness associated with chronic dry eye has been the worst part. In the last six years, my condition has improved, however my eyes are still red on a daily basis. At first, I could barely look people in the eye, and I would often get asked if I was hungover or high. This initially made me extremely self-conscious and negatively affected my mood." While not exactly the same, what is similar is the feeling of being judged for dry eye symptoms. That is not right! Just know we are here for you. -Reggie, (ChronicDryEye.net Team Member)
Sharon Moore Member
<inline-mention username="Marge" user-id="4218828"/> I experience my eyes wanting to close like you describe when I read for too long and my eyes are extremely dry. I usually reserve my use of gel drops for nighttime as they temporarily blur my vision. When I am going out shopping I do use the gel drops since they provide long lasting relief. I agree with Reggie that it is a symptom you should report to your doctor. While it may be a symptom of dry eye it could be something entirely different. I understand your embarrassment. I limp and when people comment I feel embarrassed. I hope you find an answer to your question. Please update us if you do. Best wishes, Sharon Moore team member <a href='https://chronicdryeye.net' target='_blank'>ChronicDryEye.net</a>